Having explored India for practically six weeks, my travels have taken me through the diverse landscapes of Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, Maharashtra, Gujarat, Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh, and Uttarakhand. With a mere week left, I find myself reflecting heavily on the multitude of experiences and opportunities that I have been blessed with, and the lessons I have learned from doing so. These lessons, I would like to share, are for future fellow India travelers from Aotearoa New Zealand.
When traveling in India, acknowledge diverse worldviews and beliefs within regions and communities. Despite differences, discover unexpected similarities, even with Aotearoa New Zealand’s cultures. Approach variations with an open mind, curiosity, and humility to respect their culture. No culture is superior; embracing different perspectives enriches global understanding for visitors to India.
Furthermore, it is important to understand that each state has their own unique nuances, a result of an interplay of historic, geographic, and spiritual influences. Formerly colonised towns bear the imprints of historic French, Spanish, and English influences, evident in the architecture, culinary traditions, language, and general ambience of each unique area. Proximity to state or international borders provides further cultural intersectionality, with influences from areas nearby providing intriguing crossovers that contribute the unique character of each area. Sometimes it can be subtle, other times more obvious; regardless – it is incredibly interesting to see the diversity within India itself, and it is important to be mindful of when travelling throughout.
Being considerate of the diversity throughout India includes respecting the diversity of not only Indian cultures but also their religions. Be consciously aware of the diverse customs, traditions, and sacred sites you will encounter throughout your travels, and approach them with reverence. It would pay to do some background research into India’s main religions prior to travelling; it would also benefit you to look into spiritually significant areas and the etiquette surrounding them, before travelling to the different areas.
A part of being respectful involves actively embracing the Indian dressing etiquette. Wear modest clothing, especially when visiting religious places, to show respect for local customs. Avoid having uncovered shoulders, sleeveless shirts, singlets, low cut shirts or dresses, and no shorts or skirts above the knee, or tight dresses. Scarves are an appropriate item to bring with you; not only do they ensure you remain modest, they’re needed in some temples. Thinking practically, they are a fantastic way to protect your head and shoulders from the sun!
With regards to language – In most areas you can get by using English, but learning a few basic Hindi phrases (or phrases using the local languages where you are travelling) is a way you can showcase respect, communicate easier, and create stronger connections with locals.
India can be bustling in many areas and more slow paced in others. For those who like their space, or who are from smaller towns, you may need to redefine what personal space means to you; go with the flow and embrace the environments you are in! They’re all unique and there are a lot of lessons and connections that can be found when fully accepting what is happening around you. Also, don’t forget – scheduling regular alone time in your hotel room, or nearby, to recharge is okay. It is the ultimate act of self care when travelling abroad, and you need to look after your personal needs too.
Whilst out and about, you must check out the often bustling markets! There are so many beautiful stalls to explore and perhaps purchase from. A variety of options exist, from clothes, to bags, to scarves and food. The art of haggling is an exciting aspect of shopping that you can’t miss out on, either. Unless the shop is fixed price (often they will tell you), try your hand at haggling. Actively engage with a sense of playfulness, fun, and willingness to contribute to the local economy without being too rude or tight with money. The art of haggling requires its own post – I will write one. Be sure to have a read!
Regarding food, Indian cuisine in my opinion is one of the best in the world! There is a diverse range of options, with all of it promising to be full of flavour and delight. If you’re vegetarian, you’ll find it easy to get options. If you’re an omnivore, there’s plenty of options for meat – but ensure you’re eating at reputable places to avoid food poisoning (check the reviews on Google). Exploring street food cautiously can be fun also, and it is interesting to see the culinary diversity throughout India. South India is a fantastic place to enjoy a dosa or a thali; North India has beautiful tandoor. Also, surprisingly, India makes really good pasta and noodle dishes, and you can also frequently find a fusion of Chinese and Indian food – IndoChinese. One last note on food; drink only bottled or filtered water, and say NO to ice in your drinks. A fresh coconut full of coconut milk is the perfect refresher on a hot day!
Other considerations for travellers considering travel to India:
• Experience and embrace the genuine warmth and hospitality that you will be given by Indian people. Actively engage in conversations with locals, share stories from your country and travels, and immerse yourself in the open generosity that defines Indian culture.
• Time your visit to coincide with popular Indian festivals and events. Witness the explosion of colors at Holi, traditions like Pongal, and events like the Jaipur Literature Festival, that will certainly make your travels a unique and unforgettable experience.
• Marvel at the architectural wonders that narrate tales of India’s rich history! From ancient temples to breath taking forts, each structure is a testament to the country’s rich history and architectural talent.
And most importantly… Embrace the journey, and have fun along the way!
Approaching the final days of my journey in India, I’m overwhelmed by the enduring love I’ve experienced. Indians are among the kindest and most welcoming people I’ve encountered. I have been warmly welcomed into sacred spaces, invited to weddings and dinners, and treated with exceptional hospitality and kindness. The unparalleled warmth and openness from locals have made the journey truly phenomenal – life changing.
I invite fellow travelers to embrace India with an open mind and heart. Savour the life-changing experiences you are surely to encounter, and immerse yourself in the rich diversity of India.
My time here has been remarkable, and I eagerly anticipate the remaining few days, though the impending departure is sure to be bittersweet. I have absolutely, wholeheartedly fallen in love with India, and I am sure you will too.
